One of the first components to creating your life of Vitality is to define success on your terms (not the terms that everyone else has created for you). This can be tough, because we often have to wade through decades of programming and a lot of other people’s ideas of what success looks like.
When I first started setting goals for myself, a lot of the goals that I had were actually my dad’s goals.
As a sensitive person, I used to get my feelings hurt a lot (although I was really good at hiding it). Through the years of my healing journey, I have learned a great deal about why people hurt your feelings. By taking a look at these three reasons and implementing the information into your daily life, you’ll free yourself of a lot of the hurt that is created by others. Here they are:
Reason #1: They think they are doing you a favor –
In my six years of coaching and my lifetime of being a self-help junkie, I have read so many tips on how to accomplish goals. Here are three tips that I have found to be some of the most useful:
Tip #1: Use a habit tracker – I have found tracking my habits each and every day is really motivating and builds a lot of momentum. You can do this on an app for your phone or on physical paper.
We all have goals we want to accomplish in our lives, but our mindset often holds us back from actually accomplishing them. Here are three mindset shifts I have found to work and that will assist you in accomplishing your goals.
Shift #1: Focus on what you are adding to your life (not what you are taking away) – So often, when we set a goal for ourselves, we focus on deprivation. Let’s say our goal is to lose weight.
Do you ever watch movies or read books like “The Secret” and wonder what you’re missing? Do you feel in your bones that manifesting is real but get frustrated because it doesn’t work for you? You and me both! I feel like some manifesting representations dumb down the process of creating what you want in your life. This can lead to frustration and feeling like something is wrong with you when your goals don’t manifest,
If you are anything like my Vitality ladies, you may be a (recovering) perfectionist. Perfectionists have a tendency to be really hard on themselves and spend a lot of time beating themselves up. Do you relate to this? If so, I think you’ll gain a lot by reading today’s article.
The first thing I want you to do is think of a goal you are working on right now that you are “failing”
What is the first thing you do when you wake up? If you’re anything like I used to be (and admittedly, sometimes still do), you may reach for your phone to check your notifications or start to think about all the things you have to DO today.
If you start your day like this, it can get you in a real mental place that creates a bit of stress in your life. Your subconscious is really sensitive after waking up from your sleep state,